The Diocesan Synod of Kilmore, Elphin and Ardagh has begun a process of consultation on how to deal positively with difference starting with a survey of views held by individual members of synod.

The survey uses a questionnaire that invites members to identify ways in which sectarianism is expressed in their area and to say which they regard as the most serious. Respondents are also given the opportunity to identify steps that can be taken to counter sectarian attitudes and to deal positively with difference both as individuals and as the Church.

Opening a synod debate on how to live with differences, the Rt Rev Ken Clarke, Bishop of Kilmore, Elphin and Ardagh, said the common perception is that sectarianism is about religious differences when in fact it is much wider. “It covers all kinds of things”, he said. “In a nutshell it’s about how we relate to our neighbour in our attitudes, words, actions and deeds.”

Rev Jim Stevenson, rector of Manorhamilton, County Leitrim said hardline attitudes are all too often expressed in the media and it is up to the church to distance itself from them, particularly hard political positions. “For example the Church of Ireland needs to look carefully at our association with loyal orders”, he said.

In a reference to inter church relations Mr Stevenson said the churches believe the same things but have different attitudes in the way they support the truth.

Mr Stevenson stressed the importance of ‘agreeing amicably to disagree in beliefs’.

He added: “The Pope himself sets a good example as he travels around different churches in Rome. These churches of various denominations co-operate with each other graciously. It is possible for all of us to be firm in our beliefs while at the same time recognising we have a lot in common that enable us to work well together.”

Canon Jim Sides, rector of Kildrumferton, said: “We need to remember that the Gospel is good news. Sectarianism is a hardness of heart that we need to eradicate by our own example and by showing love for one another even if we don’t agree all the time.”