| Role of St Ethelburga’s
I am most grateful for this invitation to contribute to the series on Faith and Identity and to assure St Ethelburga’s and all associated with it that its role as a platform for discussions of this nature is becoming widely accepted. Born out of the devastation caused by the bombing in 1993 the vision you share allows such as myself to draw aside from the activities of reconciliation to ponder at some depth on the lessons we are learning. A few weeks ago my colleague, Archbishop Sean Brady, contributed to this series and as I have said in public since, his words of integrity and vision were appreciated far beyond St Ethelburga’s. Nature of Reconciliation
In this lecture I want to examine the broad field of reconciliation in conflict situations and basing my words on personal experience to attempt some conclusions which I hope may be of interest to you.
For the past 41 years I have exercised ordained ministry in the Anglican Church in Ireland, the Church of Ireland, and for 29 of those years as a bishop and Archbishop I have served my Church through periods of prolonged violence and now the search in Northern Ireland for a lasting peace. I have been privileged to see the heights and nobility individual people of faith have reached in their daily experiences of life – but I have also seen the depths of hatred and division which terrorism and sectarianism can produce in any society. On a wider scale my involvement in international affairs through the work of the Anglican Communion has given me some insight into the complexities of disagreements and problems between diverse cultures across the world. On both levels I have seen at first hand the pain and suffering of alienation, rejection and human need. It is on such a basis that I place my remarks this evening for there are common denominators to the human condition which question, challenge and inform the person of faith in today’s world of suffering. While my approach and my conclusions come from my Christian and Anglican commitment I feel the reconciler of any faith tradition should be able to recognise and act upon basic principles. Text-book agendas have never in my experience been able to match the impact of personal experience.
The power of memory
First, I suggest we need to appreciate the power of memory in any situation of conflict.
Northern Ireland is today a place of widespread and divisive memory. This exists not just on a community basis but in the hearts and minds of individuals. “Living in the past” is a frequent description attributed to others and all too rarely to ourselves. On the individual level there are many in my homeland today who carry with them deep, angry and negative memories of the past. During the thirty years of widespread violence few family circles in Northern Ireland escaped the loss or serious injury to a loved one or to someone they knew. Both Protestant and Roman Catholic homes and parishes suffered. Photographs on a mantle-place or plaques on a church wall bear testimony to human loss and misery. Men, women and little children were affected. Memories of those sacrifices run deep. I cannot adequately express my admiration for those who have turned such memories into positive and wonderful means of facing the future with faith and courage. Examples of those who have turned such memories into examples of reconciled faith shame the perpetrators of death and destruction and provide such hope for the future. However there are many whose memories of the past remain ones of anger and resentment and dictate their attitudes to the present and the future. No one has the right to condemn out of right such attitudes towards the pain of the past. Memories are a very personal matter. But there can be no doubt the power of negative memory is a keen and significant ingredient in Northern Ireland life today.
When we turn to communities the same principles appear. The Protestant or loyalist community harbours resentment at the attacks it suffered from what it perceives to be Roman Catholic or Republican sources and in particular the attacks of Republican paramilitarism, the Provisional IRA. Roman Catholics recall the actions of loyalist paramilitaries who have in turn wrought immense suffering on the Roman Catholic population. Allied to these events are other ingredients to division. Sectarian attitudes inherited for generations on both sides of the divide, the misuse of political power and the denial of that power for years to others, the failure of either side to fully understand the political or religious identity of the other, and the suspicions of the real intentions of each other’s political or religious aspirations for the future. Trust, basic trust, has been the most obvious victim of those years of the Troubles. Today we see how deep the loss of trust has been. Today we see the power of memories of real or imagined hurt to be obstacles to community and individual progress.
How we deal on an individual or community basis with memory is, I am convinced, a key to the future well-being or otherwise of that whole community.
For the Christian, the Gospel imperative surely remains the recognition that the past, the present and the future, remain in the reconciling reality of a triune Godhead. Human experience stands beside the eternal nature of that presence. It is encompassed and embraced by it. The eternal nature of that Presence is the ultimate reality of human experience. But it also involves the person of faith in understanding and reaching out in active reconciliation to the healing of memory. There are many ways a community can deal with memory. I have seen how people of faith in the Middle East have striven to heal individual hurt in Gaza and Israel. I have seen the humanitarian efforts to heal memories in Uganda. I have seen the heroic coming to terms with the past in South Africa. I have also seen the hesitant yet growing in confidence efforts of many in Northern Ireland to face up to the past. I have to conclude several things from those experiences:
- reconciliation of the past cannot be hurried
- reconciliation of the past involves great courage and sacrifice
- reconciliation of the past demands at times self-sacrifice
and leadership - reconciliation of the past is essential if any step forward
is to be realistic and lasting
- reconciliation of the past involves forgiveness
In South Africa and in several South American nations efforts such as Truth and Reconciliation Commissions have been attempted as a practical means of achieving some of these aims. It is clear to me that there cannot be a generalised agenda for such Commissions. Conditions in any country will be highly individualistic. We cannot expect one model to adapt completely to any individual condition. This process involves general acceptance of a need and a determination to make it succeed. The timing is vital. Issues such as immunity from prosecution, acceptance of the disclosure of details of the past which could easily open fresh wounds and protection from community reaction to confessions of the past are all essential to this process . Is a community ready to take one or all of those steps?
The real victims of past tragedy are those who want to know what happened and why. They want to know what happened to the ‘disappeared’, they want to find some degree of justice whatever that means. They want to know. But they also want people to hear their story, to be listened to. Too many feel no one cares any more to listen. It is how others listen that determines reconciliation and healing. “Known only to God” is an emotive but a real factor in Northern Ireland today. No process of a Commission which is a substitute to ‘solving past crimes’ by itself is a realistic manner of dealing with the memories of the past. We cannot confuse the solution of past crimes with widespread reconciliation. There are many unsolved crimes in Northern Ireland’s past. But reconciliation is something different. To ‘draw a line in the sand’, to close the door on the past will be an achievement of immense human endeavour. It will also be an achievement demanding sensitivity and prior acceptance of risk of a high order. Reconciliation is strength
Second, we must recognise that reconciliation is not a word of weakness – it is an experience of human strength and I would add a Christian imperative.
My understanding of the Gospel imperative in this regard is summed up in the command ‘to live peacefully as far as possible with all .’ The ‘hard Gospel’ demands the depths of love we saw at Calvary where the prayer for forgiveness was completely identified with the Sacrifice of Christ. Sacrifice and forgiveness were interwoven. One element was submerged in the other. Reconciliation between individuals and communities demands a sacrificial nature to forgiveness.
I can recall this evening unbelievable acts of forgiveness by individuals in the past which called for admiration and condemnation by others in almost equal quantities. The father of a young nurse killed in the Enniskillen bombing who prayed for the terrorists. The mother whose little child died because she was in the wrong place at the wrong time, who prayed that others would not have to face the same situation. We have seen immensely moving examples of sacrificial forgiveness and attitudes which have questioned and challenged our own perceptions. But equally many have responded to individual tragedy with understandable resentment and anger and little evidence of forgiveness. As I have said we cannot condemn such reaction out of hand – we have to try to understand.
This ‘trying to understand’ has been in my experience a key part and perhaps the most important mechanism of the reconciliation process. Speaking here a few weeks ago Archbishop Brady appealed for people in Northern Ireland to go ‘a further step.’ I would add to that call these words : people need to try harder to understand how and why others believe what they do. It is a Christian imperative to reach out to others but it is equally a Gospel demand that we see through other eyes as well as our own.
Roman Catholics and Nationalists in Northern Ireland need to understand the uncertainty and apprehension of their Protestant neighbours so far as the future is concerned. Perceptions become realities in Northern Ireland in an instant. The perceptions of many in the Protestant community is that their ethos, their political aspiration and their stability as a community is being eroded by over-attention on the part of government to demands from Republicanism. There is a perception that demand after demand is being granted with little or no evidence that the position of traditional unionism is being protected. That perception surfaces from time to time but it is vivid and real. Given the sensitivities of the Peace Process the danger is that if such a perception exists it can become the reality. The fact is that Sinn Fein commands a majority political position within the northern nationalist community. To Protestant eyes this fact calls for a clear and honest understanding of their perception. It also substantiates their longing to see a complete end to paramilitary threat or pressure from within the Republican community.
Paramilitary influence controls life in many working-class Protestant and Roman Catholic areas. Allied to attacks of a sectarian nature on individuals because of their religious or political identity protection rackets, drug distribution and intimidation through such as punishment beatings continue. Loyalist gangs continue to attack Roman Catholics. Protestants fear Republican gangs. So much so that many ask ‘Peace Process – what peace process?’ It is also true that alienation from democratic political processes is a growing element. Politicians of all traditions need to take this seriously. Also, what happens once we reach a general point of end to paramilitary activity? How will so-called normal life operate? For many paramilitarism is a way of life – a fact of life. How will society accommodate those who have found status and social activity because of paramilitarism? What replaces the criminal activities of these groupings? Has society alternatives to offer once it all ends?
Equally to see the situation through other eyes demands that political Protestantism understands the reason for years of perceptions by nationalists that they had no real input to their experiences of government. Protestants today are experiencing the inevitable emotions of the changes brought about by alterations to the balance of political power. As with reconciliation itself readjustment takes time. But Roman Catholic alienation for years was a reality Protestants must accept. Today the political peace process has brought new recognition, new power and new opportunities for those who felt that alienation. It calls for sensitivity by them.
In truth a major step forward calls for even more than understanding of each other’s fears. It calls for forgiveness and the open understanding we have all contributed to the fears of others. I have used the term ‘political peace process’ deliberately. There are various strands to the Irish peace process. Political development is just one part. But no political development such as power-sharing can by itself deliver reconciliation or stability. It can help – but unless there is confidence on the ground, unless there is trust between ordinary people and unless communities really want stable accommodation political progress alone cannot deliver real peace. The current stalemate in the political process is leaving a dangerous vacuum which permits apprehension and instability to flourish. It must reach a conclusion sooner rather than later for the good of both communities.
The effort to understand the feelings of others does not demand total acceptance to the views of others, but it does demand understanding which is the key to long-term reconciliation.
As an Anglican I have long believed in ‘unity in diversity’. Diversity of outlook is an accepted norm of human experience. It can be a strength. It can equally be a weakness. It is all in how it is understood and practiced. Archbishop Brady rightly appealed for a recognition by Protestants and unionists of Roman Catholic and nationalist aspirations. Roman Catholics must seek to understand the apprehensions of the Protestant and unionist community.
I have been described as the ‘divine optimist’ in my work in Northern Ireland and further afield. I believe in the good sense and decency of the ordinary person. I believe also that the peace process in Northern Ireland will depend on its success not just on political progress but on the attitude of decent Protestants and Roman Catholics – and there are thousands of them. Together they can build a good future for their children. Apart, they will guarantee years of distrust and alienation.
Role of the Church Finally, I want to suggest that in this violent world the Church has a role to play which it does not always appreciate.
Recently the Archbishop of Canterbury acknowledged that but for the work of the Churches the tragic consequences of the years of The Troubles in Northern Ireland would have been much worse. Such a conclusion is for someone outside the immediacies of the situation to make. As one who has lived through those years I cannot but be encouraged by such an opinion.
The truth is that the local Church of all traditions has been at the forefront of the suffering and division. History will record the individual courage and faithful ministry of clergy and devoted people. We have developed in those years what I call ‘instantaneous pastoral theology’ whereby we have reacted to situations without the benefit of text-books and in a basic Christian way of answering basic human need. Only now have we the luxury of standing back to question or analyse our work in real detail. We made mistakes, we were at times too identified with ‘the needs of our people’, we were ambiguous at times about long-term positions – but we were there. I am convinced that in all situations of division and suffering individual acts of courage or vision have much greater impact than formal statements or positions by institutions. Therefore I commend without reservation the work of individual clergy and dedicated Church laity.
Equally on an international basis understanding how others think and act as they do is a major stepping stone to reconciliation. How much are the fears of Palestinians taken on board by Israel? How much are the genuine uncertainties of Israelis understood by Palestinians? How much did Britain and the United States take on board the complexities of the diverse religious traditions in Iraq when they planned a post-war strategy for that country?
Seeing through each other’s eyes is a demanding and sacrificial process. Without it there will be grave restrictions to the freedom of movement towards stability and peace in any conflict.
So, I submit these general principles for your consideration. As a Christian Church Leader I turn back time and again to the imagery of the Calvary experience. Forgiveness is sacrificial. But forgiveness in which there is the great ingredient of sacrifice is a powerful and in the end a history-moving objective.
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